Those that are still in the dating world or are just getting back into it would do with a little of advice. There are some definite no-nos and some must-dos.

First off make sure you give off the single and interested vibe. Don’t give off mixed signals. Either you’re interested or you’re not. If you’re not sure then be honest. “I’m looking to date but not get serious.” With the dating world the way it is today most people appreciate the upfront honesty.

Hygiene is a good thing. Make sure to shower, shave and for goodness sake use deodorant. Dig out the dirt from under your fingernails and wear clean clothing that has been ironed recently (and for the love of everything, stay away from running clothing, this is never a good fashion choice for a date). If you wear perfume or cologne don’t overdo it. Clean is one thing, a walking cloud of artificial odor is a whole other subject.

Don’t talk about your ex-anything. Really not something the other person needs to know. Unless maybe they are a stalker and your current date could be in harm’s way. In that case, it’s a toss up. Yes they deserve to know but will they want to go out with you anymore?

Show your interested without jumping in their lap. Don’t call them (or email or text or instant message ) every minute of every day. Huge stalker red flags will pop up and they will run away screaming. If you made the first move then let them make the second or just drop one phone call or email if you want to get together again. Be sure to know when and where when you talk so as to not have to call a gazillion times. On the opposite side, don’t be so cool and collected that the other person thinks you’re not interested. So somewhere between ice queen and stalker mode is acceptable.