There once was a day and time where for women and men to go anywhere alone together was taboo. There was no grinding on each other on the dance floor. There was no kissing and making out in public. In fact, men pulled out chairs for ladies when they went to sit. They stood when a lady came to or left the table. Now men barely open doors for women. There is no longer a push for celibacy or discretion. Now it is a goal or joke to see how many people you can sleep with.

When dating we need to be able to spot the warning signs that you make be dating a jerk. This is in reference to both men and women. Women can be sexual deviants just as quickly as men. They can have no regard for themselves or others. When people choose to play these sex games of divide and conquer they are endangering not only themselves but, all of the people they are sleeping with so, if you protect yourself and know the signs you may be able to prevent a tragic outcome.

If you go on a date and the first thing that is offered is to get some drinks you should pass or offer another idea of a place to go. It is a bad sign if getting liquored up is essential to the date. Be able to spot the suave, debonair approach. Constant touching, constant complements, and the slimy full body, top to bottom gaze that makes you want to drench them in red diesel and set them alight. Yes a good date will give you compliments but they will also ask questions. They will genuinely want to know more about you not just your bra size or if you wear boxers or briefs. Make sure that you are not being bowled over. You can feel if someone is faking who they are. No matter what, if you think they may be the one or just the one for right now, do not sleep with them on the first date. Make them wait. If someone is just looking to add on a few more numbers they will not wait a month to sleep with you. They will chalk it up as a loss and move on. By doing this you may be saving your own life. People who act that way are opening themselves up to a whole plethora of diseases. Be safe and wise when it comes to your sexual acts.