For many women, finding and keeping a guy can be quite the challenge. Occasionally this is due to the guy not turning out to be what you expected. More than often, however, this is because a woman can get in her own way. Below are some tips you can follow to attract and keep that dream man.

1. The absolute worse thing you can do is to talk about your ex. It doesn’t matter how awful he was or what he did to you, talking about him to your new beau will not make him feel sorry for you or better about himself. If anything, he will think that you haven’t gotten over the past and might decide not to pursue you.

2. Do not lower your standards when choosing your date. If there is a particular type of man you are looking for and you decide to settle for less simply because he asked you out, you might be jeopardizing your chances at a long term relationship. Plus, if you do settle for less, you will not be happy later on and will only end up hurting the guy or worse sticking in a relationship that is meaningless to you out of fear of hurting him.

3. Stop trying to be the pleaser. When you find your date, let him know that you have needs too. It is not all about him getting everything he wants. Besides, trying to please him all the time just shows him that you have low self esteem and you will appear desperate to him. A desperate woman is a total turn off to most men.

When you do find that date, just be yourself and have fun. This is not a marriage agreement you are going into, it is a first date. If it bombs, who cares? There are always more fish in the sea.

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